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Paula Hayer
October 5, 1971 - July 31, 2011
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Paula Lynn Hayer (Wright)
October 05, 1971 – July 31, 2011
Paula beloved wife and mother passed away peacefully at Vancouver General Hospital with her family by her side.
Survived by “her boys” husband Sarb, sons Nirmal and Rajan. Parents Doug and Karen Wright, Taru and Harbans Hayer. Brothers: Doug (Darlene) Wright, Dave (Parveen) Hayer, predeceased by brother Nirmal Hayer. Sister Jas (Sam) Mann, nieces: Neelam Mann, Dominique, Daisy and Dannaka Wright, nephews: Jason and Hayden Hayer, Marcus Mann, Dru Wright and granny Irene Kernachan.
Paula’s quiet, gentle ways, her loving devotion to her family and friends will live in our hearts forever.
A service will be held at New Life Community Baptist Church 1839 Tzouhalem Road Duncan, British Columbia on Saturday August 06, 2011 at 2:00p.m. Online condolences may be offered at www.hwwallacecbc.com
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From: Nina
Relation: aunt-in-law
My heart goes out to Paula’s families as death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Paula I am glad you became a part of our family, you were an amazing person. You will always be in our hearts as when someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. I am sure you are in good hands as you are now with many of our loved ones.
From: Julie Greenwood-CHANIN
Relation: High School Friend/Sports
To Paula’s Beloved Family,
I am so deeply saddened after hearing of Paula’s passing. She was a very sweet, gentle and kind person. My heart is aching for you all. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. I know our world is a better place for having had Paula in it…. Wishing you strength and courage at this very difficult time.
Julie (Greenwood) Chanin and Family
From: Lisa Dawson
Relation: Friends
To Sarb, Nirmal Rajan and Family,
We are deeply Saddened to hear of the loss of your beloved Paula.
Paula was a very warm and kind soul and our hearts break for you all during this difficult time.
It is my hope for you all that time will heal your broken hearts.
Paula will be with you throughout your lives and she will live on within you all.
Take care, our thoughts are with you all during this time.
Lisa, Garnie, Spencer and Kieran
From: Brian, Alessandra, Lavinia and Thomas
Relation: Cousin
The substantial disbelief and pain that we feel, and shall feel for a very long time, is shared by many. We wish Paula’s boys: Sarb, Nirmal and Rajan great strength in dealing with their painful loss and void. Paula embodied kindness, fairness and devotion; she was a wonderful person. Her smile and soft manner are forever imprinted in our minds. We would like to express condolences to Taru and Harbans for the loss of such a remarkable daughter-in-law. We also feel greatly for Uncle Doug and Auntie Karen, we can only imagine the painful turmoil of losing such a considerate and beautiful child. Cousin Doug and family, be strong, our thoughts are with you.
Although we will never get over Paula’s unfair and premature departure, we hope one day we will begin to live with it. I know that will seem like an insurmountable task for those close to her, but with the love and support of family and friends we hope peace will slowly enter back into the lives of those most affected. We wish you all the strength in the world. Our Hearts are with you.
Love and support,
Brian, Alessandra, Lavi and Tommy de Leeuw
From: Tracey Bernasky
Relation: cousin
Knowing that Paula was welcomed by her Uncle Bill, Granny and Papa is very comforting. Rest in Peace my sweet cousin.
From: Pamela Lynn Wright
Relation: Cousin.
You will Dearly be missed Paula..To Uncle Doug, Auntie Karen and all the Family so sorry for your loss…Uncle Bill, Papa and Granny will be watching over her..All our Love Pamela, Joe, Courtnee. Dallas and Paris Howcroft (Wright)
From: Kathy and Neil Bouma
Relation: friend
We are so sorry for your loss. We had such respect for Paula. She was a beautiful person inside and out. We will remember her kindness-never uttering a bad word about anyone. Wishing you peace and comfort at this very difficult time.
From: Sandra Large (Middlemiss)
Relation: Family Friends
To Sarb, Nirmal, Rajan, Mr. and Mrs. Hayer, Doug and Karen…There are no words that seem appropriate at this time, but know that we are thinking of you all and you’re in our prayers.
Gary, Theresa and Chris Middlemiss
Nigel, Sandra, Kristyn and Patrick Large
From: Janet Mandin (Hutchinson)
Relation: Childhood friend
Doug, Karen, Dougie and families – I am extremely saddened to hear of Paula’s passing and my thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. I have many fond childhood memories because of Paula that I will forever hold in my heart. Her gentle and kind soul will always be remembered. Love Janet and family
From: Cindy and Mark Bryson
Relation: Old neighbours of Paula & Sarb
We are thinking of you all during this difficult time. Hope that fond memories of Paula will get you through these sad days.
Service Schedule
Funeral Service
Date & Time:
August 6, 2011
Beginning at 2:00pm
Location:
New Life Community Baptist Church
1839 Tzouhalem Road
Duncan, BC
1839 Tzouhalem Road
Duncan, BC
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